Wednesday, May 15, 2013

How To Save A Sexless Marriage

Are You Coping With a Sexless Marriage? - It's Time to Do Something To Save Your Marriage


Save Sexless Marriage - Nothing can be as painful for anyone as to be in a sexless marriage. In some
cases, men are the sufferers, while in other; women have to suppress their sex drive just because of the loss of sexual drive of their partners. Whoever is the sufferer, a sexless marriage is an extremely painful relationship. Most people try harder to revive their partner's sex drive by doing different things but when they don't see any change in their partner's behavior they start thinking about divorce. That's not the "right solution" to a sexless marriage. There are some things that can be done to save sexless marriage and to revive your partner's drive only if you know how to do these things correctly.
 

Why Sex Leaves Marriages? 


There are various reasons why a normal marriage can turn into a sexless marriage. In order to find how to save a sexless marriage, you should first find out the actual reason of your sexless relationship. Let's have a look on these reasons.
  •     One partner is too busy or working in a different schedule
  •     Communication problems between both partners
  •     Lack of trust
  •     Financial problems
  •     Anxiety or depression
  •     Children's responsibilities
  •     Misunderstandings
  •     Sexual addiction, which can cause the addicted partner to lose sexual interest with their regular partner
  •     Adultery
  •     Sexual dysfunction
  •     Any type of illness


These were the major reasons why normal marriages convert into sexless marriages. However, there may be many other reasons for a sexless marriage. For example, any deeper relationship issue between husband and wife.

Some Facts About Sexless Marriages 

  1. According to marriage statistics, about 40 million or 15 to 20 percent couples in the United States are living in a sexless marriage or relationship.
  2. A great number of people file for divorce every day just because of their sexless marriage.
  3. More men refuse to have sex than women in sexless marriages.
  4. Sexual needs of two partners can be different due to which one partner may feel satisfied with having sex once in a week, month or every three months, while other partner may need more frequent sex.
  5. According to a research conducted by the US National Health and Social Life, 2% of married defendants in divorce cases report they had no sex in their marriage.
  6. Sexless marriages can occur between couples of all ages. It's not related to older couples only.
  7. Most sexless marriages end up on divorce.


I Can't Fix My Sexless Marriage, So I am Filing For Divorce

Most individuals give up and they file for divorce. It's because they think that they cannot fix their sexless marriage, so it's better to file for divorce. This is a "Wrong Approach."
You Can Save Your Marriage